Manage Immobilizing Fear Using Human Design

This wonderful Gate is about depth, mastery, and being prepared to contribute to survival. - It's driven to understand the ins and outs of things so that it's ready to respond to all questions and problems at the right time.

The fear and anxiety of this Gate is that it won't be ready. - It worries that it won't know all the things. It's inadequate. Unworthy. Not good enough.

It goes on preparing and gaining knowledge instead of launching and making way for the next opportunity for depth and mastery.

Procrastination and imposter syndrome are recipes for never getting your gifts out into the world. (Picture the unpublished manuscript, unshared art, or in relationships, the “the one that got away.”)

If this is you, have you noticed that when you explain what's holding you back to your nearest and dearest, they don't understand. - All they see is an exquisite, inspired offering. You've nailed it. - It doesn’t need anything else.

One way to manage the fear and doubt of this Gate is to learn all you can about it and observe how it affects your life in real-time.

My favorite reframe is:

Ask yourself: Do I know more about this subject than 100 people?

If the answer is yes, then it's good enough. - Get it out there. Allow the right people to find you. Move on.

Use your Human Design Strategy and Authority. They help you wait calmly and in peace for the right time, environment, person, and invitation to share yourself and your genius with.

Gate 57 is often described as the most psychic Gate in the Human Design Chart. - It's energy is immediate, present moment clarity about what is needed to survive.

When compared to the other 6 Spleen Gates, it has the most "in the now" response.

It is very personal and is not dependent on analysis, lessons from the past, or caring for others.

Fear and anxiety can happen here when you know the survival implications of your intuition. - You will feel the weight of its responsibility.

The fear might say:

The intuition in Gate 44 guides you to say and do the right things at the right time so you and others get what you need to survive.

Its resources are lessons, systems, and survival skills from the past. - Which ones still serve us, which ones need an update, and which ones are no longer needed.

It's known for its honesty, integrity, and intolerance of deceit, or not. - It's the truth teller.

It has an uncanny ability to sense unscrupulous or two-faced intentions.

Its survival function helps you and others avoid harmful situaions, relationships, and decisions.

Do you have a knack for knowing what people need?

Are you driven to meet their needs whether they’ve asked for it or not?

Do you find it hard to say no and usually bend over backward to please others?

The gift of this Gate is instinctively knowing what others need before they do. You feel pressure to caretake, and you are loved and admired for it.

Anxiety and fear happens when you don't feel free to say no. It happens when you can't meet someone's need or your efforts are ignored or rejected.

A fearful Gate 50 reasons, "If I don't do this for you, you will be mad at me. You will think less of me, reject, and leave me."

This is called co-dependency. - The recipient's gratitude and pleasure soothes the givers fear and anxiety. And vice versa.

Living in the fear of this Gate means you will fail to live your own authentic life to the fullest.

Imagine having an unveiling party for your big, beautiful dream come true, .but nobody shows up.

The ones who do show up are wet blankets. They scoff and criticize. - It's your worst nightmare.

Gate 32 is where many great ideas go to die. You've missed windows of opportunity beause unless you are certain you cannot fail, your big thing won't see the light of day. - Anything less than perfection and celebration is too painful to contemplate.

The energy of Gate 28 is the drive to find meaning. That is, find which of life's struggles are worth the effort of a good fight.

You are driven toward challenges, confronting issues, and stubbornly fighting causes.

You're known for your endurance, bravery, and willingness to "die trying."

You've earned the title "The Game Player" because you are exhilierated by the challenge of surviving the fight.

When all is said and done, you become an inspiration and resource of what's worth fignting for and how to survive it.

The fear in this gate is the sense that time is running out for you to live up to the promise of Gate 28.

Bordom, anxiety, and the sense that you are not living up to your calling as a Survivor of Struggles, will cause you to dive into battles meant to be fought by someone else. - That's a serious waste of your energy.

Moving from struggle to struggle in this way is not sustainable. It can damage your health and more.

Abundant energy is yours when you use your Human Design Strategy and Authority to choose the right struggle and stand up for the right people and causes at the right time. - You will have all the energy you need to make a difference.

In the bargain, you get to protect your health and live to fight another day!